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Thursday, February 12, 2015

To have a change of heart

Idiom: To have a change of heart; used as a verb 

Maria: So what do you think of the puppy now?
Neil: Now that he's at home, I admit, he is pretty adorable. And you're right, we did have enough room for a pet.
Maria: I'm glad you had a change of heart. I know you didn't want a dog at first, but I think we made a good choice.
Neil: So do I.

Meaning: The expression "have a change of heart" means that someone changes his/her mind on a decision or opinion, usually from a negative to a positive. 
In the example above, Todd has "had a change of heart" because he didn't initially want a pet.  But now that they have the puppy, he's happy about it.

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

To have a heart

Idiom: To have a heart; used as a verb 

Maria: Look at these adorable puppies my friend posted on facebook. They're looking for homes. Maybe we should adopt one?
Neil: We don't need a dog.
Maria: Why not? They're so adorable, and they need homes. And I have been thinking a pet could be fun.
Neil: I don't know.
Maria: Oh, have a heart. At least go look at them with me and think about it. They need homes, and we have one.
Neil: OK, we can go see the puppies tomorrow, but I'm not promising anything.

Meaning: The expression "have a heart" means to be compassionate, generous or forgiving. In the example above, Maria tells Neil to "have a heart" when he initially rejects her suggestion that they adopt a puppy. This imperative usage (telling someone to do something) is one of the most common ways to use this idiom. When a person rejects something that is compassionate, generous or forgiving, someone else might say "have a heart;" this suggests that the person should reconsider.

In addition to the imperative usage above, the idiom is also often used with the word "if," as in the following example:

Christine: I know you're still mad at Daniel for scratching your car, but he apologized and offered to pay for it. 
Thomas: I know, but it was really irresponsible of him.
Christine: If you had a heart, you would just forgive Daniel and move on.

Meaning: In this case, saying "if you had a heart" is almost a challenge, telling someone that they need to be more compassionate, generous or forgiving (as in this specific example).