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Tuesday, March 4, 2014

The Ball is in Your Court


Sports idioms are used quite often in everyday life.  They are most interesting when they are used as analogies for important issues such as business or politics.  If you want to increase your English skills and understand American current events, you should focus on some of these idioms.  For example the idiom “the ball is in your court” is a typical idiom that can be used in a business or political situation.  A business owner makes an offer to another company to make a merger.  He makes a great offer and says “the ball is now in your court.”  This means he is telling the other company that he has made them an offer.  They can take the offer, make a counter-offer, or reject the offer.  They are the next entity to make a move.  In an international situation, an American president can give an ultimatum to a dictator in another country and tell him that “the ball is in your court” meaning that he can either take the ultimatum that the government has made, or he can go against it and perhaps cause World War III!

Example One:
Mr. Business Owner A:  I am offering you ten million dollars for your business.  You know that you will go bankrupt if you don’t accept my offer, because everyone knows that this business is failing under your management.  I can make it great again; just give me a chance to take it over.
Mr. Business Owner B:  I just don’t know.  This business was started by my great grandfather, and I just can’t stand the thought of losing it.  Let me think about your offer for a few more days.
Mr. Business Owner A:  You go ahead and do that.  You know you won’t get any other offers like mine.  Don’t be sentimental about this, go ahead and do the right thing for your employees and for your customers.  The ball is now in your court.
In the above example, Mr. Business Owner A gives an offer to Mr. Business Owner B.  Mr. A starts the game, and now it is Mr. B’s turn to “play”.  The “advantage” goes back and forth as business offers are made, modified, accepted and rejected. 

Example Two:
American President:  Mr. Megalomaniac, you had better get those troops out of Xanadu.  It is a sovereign nation, and you have no right to interfere.
Mr. Megalomaniac:  But that land originally belonged to my country!  My people want it back!
American President:  That may be true, but The United Nations has agreed that you have no further rights to Xanadu.  You have 3 days to get your troops out of there.  Please think carefully about what you will do next.   Do you want to turn this into an international war?  Please consider it carefully.  The ball is in your court.
In this situation, as in the business situation, Mr. Megalomaniac has been thrown an “ultimatum” by the American President.  Therefore, Mr. Megalomaniac now holds the “ball” and it is his turn to “play”.  He must make the ultimate decision as to the future of the world! 

This idiom comes from the game of tennis where a tennis ball goes back and forth from one court to the next between two players.  When you have the ball in your court, you are considered to have the “advantage” and it is now your turn to make the next “play” by hitting the “ball” back to the other “court”, hence the expression, “the ball is in your court”.  It is your turn to make a decision and choose whether or not to continue the “game”.

Thursday, February 27, 2014

To Wrap Your Head Around Something



Context #1

John: Can you believe that young Japanese pitcher Tanaka signed a $250 million contract with the Yankees?
Tom: I know!  That's a lot of money.  I can't imagine being 23 years old and making that much money.
John: Yeah, it's hard for me to wrap my head around that.

Context #2

Sally:  Did you hear that Justin Bieber got arrested for drunk driving again?
Jill: Man, he is so stupid!  If he doesn't change his behavior he's going to ruin his life with drugs and alcohol.
Sally:  Yeah, I know!  He can't seem to wrap his head around just how serious it is to drink and drive.  He might kill somebody someday.

Meaning: to wrap your head around something is an expression that started to appear in American English relatively recently.  It means to be able to truly understand or grasp something with your mind/thinking.  Practical idioms like this are taught at LSI in our Speaking and Conversation classes.  For more information please visit: www.languagesystems.edu

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Have a song stuck in one's head



Context #1

Jim:  Have you heard the new Justin Timberlake song?
Tony:  Are you kidding?  They play it on the radio all the time.
Jim:  I know!  I heard it on my way to work this morning and the song is stuck in my head!

Context #2

Julie: Is that you humming?
Christine: Yeah, you know that song "Halo" by BeyoncĂ©.
Julie: Sure!  I love that song.
Christine:  Me too! It is stuck in my head and I have been humming it all day.

Meaning:  To have a song stuck in your head means that you cannot get the song out of your consciousness.  This happens when a song is really popular and has a catchy tune or catchy lyrics.  Anytime you hear a song and then find yourself signing that song or thinking about that song when you are all by yourself, you can say that song is stuck in your head.  Practical idioms like this are taught at LSI in our Speaking and Listening classes.  For more information please visit: www.languagesystems.edu

Thursday, February 20, 2014

An Arm and a Leg

An Arm and a Leg means really expensive
Use: I just bought a new 55 inch Smart TV. It cost me an arm and a leg!

A 55 inch Smart TV is really expensive

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

A Dime a Dozen


A Dime a Dozen – very common; not special because it is so common.
Use: I grew up in a small farming town. Everyone drove big old trucks. The first time I saw a BMW, I was amazed. But now that I live in Los Angeles, BMWs are a dime a dozen.

BMWs are really common in Los Angeles, so seeing one is nothing special.


Thursday, February 13, 2014

To Have A Crush On Someone



Idiom: crush/to have a crush on someone; used as a verb

First Example:

Christina: Hey Sarah, welcome back from your vacation.
Sarah: Thanks.  It was great.  Any changes around here?
Christina: Well, they hired a new guy last week, Eric, and he's really sweet. Plus, he's kind of handsome.
Sarah: Yeah, I met him earlier.  Wait, you have a crush on him, don't you?
Christina: What? No. He's only been here a week.
Sarah: Then how do you explain the new dress? And the new hair style? And the makeup?
Christina: Well, OK, maybe I have a little crush, but I think he's married.
Sarah: I didn't see a ring when I shook his hand.  And don't look now, but he's looking at you right now. 
Christina: Really?
Sarah: I think I sense the beginning of an office romance.

Meaning: The expression "to have a crush on someone" means to have very strong feelings for someone.  However, when "crush" is used to describe attraction, it usually implies that the attraction is one way and that it likely won't last.  In the example above, Sarah thinks that Christina has a crush on their new coworker, Eric.  While Christina initially denies it, she finally admits that she does have a crush, but then she explains why it is only a crush: she thinks he's married.  However, Sarah says that he wasn't wearing a wedding ring, and then she notices that he is looking at Christina she suggests that Christina's crush could turn into an actual romance.

In addition, "crush" doesn't always have to be used with "have" or "on", as in the following example:

Timothy: I noticed you keep staring at Melissa. Are you interested in here?
Cole: Kind of.
Timothy: You should ask her out.
Cole: No.  It's just a little crush.  I'll be over it soon.
Timothy: Why not! If you like her, ask her out!
Cole: I don't think she would ever go out with me. Plus, she's a good friend.  If I asked her out, then it would be awkward when we hung out. 

In this case, Cole likes Melissa, but he says it's "just a little crush," meaning that he likes her, but it's not serious.  He has decided not to ask her out because he doesn't want to make their friendship awkward.


Note: this idiom is related to LSI's upcoming Valentine's Day party.  For more information, contact the Marketing Department or ask the front desk at your school.

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Those Three Little Words

Idiom: those three little words; used as a noun

First Example:

Rachel: How was your weekend?
Charlene: Fantastic! Tom took me to a really amazing restaurant, and then we went for a walk on the beach.
Rachel: Aww! That sounds so sweet!
Charlene: And then the best part - he finally said those three little words I've been waiting for.
Rachel: Wow! So you guys are really getting serious! 
Charlene: I think so.

Meaning: The expression "those three little words" refers to the phrase "I love you."  Since "I love you" is considered such a strong and powerful thing to say, we often use the phrase "those three little words" to refer to the phrase in conversation.  Usually, this is used when at least one person in a couple hasn't said it to the other, but it can also be used for the first time one partner says "I love you" to the other, as in the above example.  In this example, Charlene is excited because Tom finally told her that he loved her.  

Here is another example:

Dale: How are things going in your new relationship?
Colby: Pretty well.  I can't believe we met online.
Dale: How long have you guys been going out?
Colby: A little over a month.
Dale: Wow! If you don't watch out, someone's gonna slip up and say those three little words!
Colby: It wouldn't surprise me. I'm actually really happy
Dale: Glad to hear it.  You two seem like a really great match.

In this instance, Colby says that his new relationship is going really well, and Dale jokingly warns that someone is going to slip up (which means "make a mistake") and say "I love you" to the other.  This expression is often used in contexts such as this, when a relationship is getting serious but no one has said "I love you" to the other person yet.

Note: this idiom is related to LSI's upcoming Valentine's Day party.  For more information, contact the Marketing Department or ask the front desk at your school.